What is a kink ?

Kinks are generally anything that falls outside the norm of conventional sex or simple vaginal penetration.
But also sex outside the bedroom, in unusual places,…
Lingerie and outfits can also be kinky.
New positions too.
All in all, anything that titillates, delights or arouses is kinky.
Some kinks are very classic, others less so.

Kink has a certain sense of sexual arousal, which is not necessarily the case with BDSM.
BDSM also brings together different aspects – Bondage, Discipline, Sadism, Masochism, Domination, Submission – which are not necessarily present in kinks.

Certain practices can also fall distinctly into both categories, depending on the individual.
For example, pegging can be a kink linked to anal penetration for the pleasure of prostate stimulation.
Or in BDSM be linked to a desire to submit and be used.
The meaning will not be the same, because the search and the experience will be different.

Fetishism is more focused on a particular object of desire, which may or may not provoke a strong sexual desire.
Kink, on the other hand, focuses on a wider spectrum, provoking less desire.
As with BDSM, depending on the individual, a practice or object can be kink or fetish.

Here you’ll find a list of well-known and lesser-known kinks.
Perhaps the birth of new kinks?

• Fist (Insertion of fist/hand into vagina or anus)
• Gangbang/Orgies (Sex with multiple partners at the same time)
• Travestissement (Dressing/hairdressing/make-up in a gender other than one’s own)
• Cuckolding (Generally a man taking pleasure in knowing his wife sleeping with other men)
• Role Play (Playing a fictional or real character, with or without disguise)
• Chastity (Absence of orgasm or sexual pleasure)
• Pet Play (Taking on the role of an animal)
• Exhibitionism (Taking pleasure in being seen during sexual practices)
• Voyeurism (Taking pleasure in seeing someone else engage in sexual practices)
• Outdoor sex (Sex outside the home, see in nature)
• Electro-stimulation (Stimulation created with electricity in small doses using dedicated devices)
• Dressed sex (Sexual practices without taking off one’s clothes)
• Sexy lingerie (Lingerie worn to arouse desire)
• Stockings and tights (Worn to arouse desire)
• Materials (leather, latex, . ..) (Worn for their specific textures which can be very sexy and enhance the body)
• Libertinage (Sexually practicing with people outside one’s couple)
• Uniforms (Uniforms evocative for the participants, which can lead to role-playing or not)
• Deep Throat (Inserting a penis/dildo deep into the mouth)
• Edging (Leading to the brink of orgasm and maintaining this level without going all the way to orgasm)
• Guided masturbation (Masturbation with indications from the partner)
• Pegging (Sodomy performed by a woman on a man)
• Sextoys (Various objects used to obtain sexual pleasure)
• Bukkake (Getting ejaculated on by several people)
• Golden shower (Getting urinated on the body)
• Glory hole (Hole in a wall through which a penis or dildo can pass, with the possibility of inserting a mouth, vagina or anus on the other side)
• Sensory deprivation (blindfold, plug ears, put in a vacbed,. .. )
• Strip-tease (Dance in which clothes are removed progressively)
• Nyotaimori (One person lying on a table serving as a meal tray)
• Figging (Inserting a piece of freshly peeled ginger into the anus)
• Face-sitting (Sitting on one’s partner’s face, which can be used for cunnilingus, annulingus or not)
• Wax play (Candle play, dripping hot wax on the other)
• Scratching (Scratching with nails, claws, knife, . …)
• Biting (biting gently or harder)