BDSM Paddles

What is a BDSM paddle?

The word “paddle” comes from the typical shape of the paddles used for rowing.
In BDSM, it’s used for spanking, replacing the hand in impact play.
BDSM paddles are generally made of wood, but also leather, metal and other more or less noble materials, resistant to repeated impacts. With holes for aerodynamics, or without.

Where does the paddle come from?

What role does the paddle play in BDSM?

The paddle is a classic BDSM instrument, and it’s very common to have at least one paddle in your paraphernalia when practicing impact games, especially spanking.

The paddle is particularly well-suited to spanking, which is its most common use. Thanks to its large impact surface, the buttocks will be a prime area for this instrument.

Who are BDSM paddles for?

Given the wide choice of materials and intensities available, BDSM paddles are suitable for all levels of practitioner, from beginner to advanced.

Handling a paddle is very easy, unlike a whip which requires more training, and simple paddles don’t pose any great danger if used on the buttocks.

How to choose a BDSM paddle?

-Choosing the paddle’s intensity level

First of all, you’ll need to decide with your partner on the potential pain level of your paddle, and whether it’s possible to obtain different intensities, notably by using the two different sides of the paddle.

-Choosing paddle material

The choice of materials for your paddle is very varied, as is its thickness.
For a wooden BDSM paddle, choose one that’s thick enough to last the test of time. As wood is rigid, it will be more sensitive to repeated impacts if it’s too light or too thin.
Taking all materials together, the stiffer it is, the more percussive it will be. And the softer it is, the sharper it will be.

-Choosing the right paddle size

A paddle can be very small, to give very targeted impacts, or very wide or long, to hit a large area, or even both buttocks at the same time.

How to use a BDSM paddle?

Holding the paddle with one hand and a supple wrist, strike your partner’s skin with the flat of the paddle, varying the intensity according to how your partner feels.
Give priority to fleshy areas of the body, and avoid places where bones are most flush.

Want to find out more about BDSM paddles?

Check out this blog post.