All you need to know about bdsm paddles

Paddles are among the best-known BDSM instruments. They are mainly used to spank consenting adults, in place of the hand.

A bit of history…

The word “paddle” comes from the typical shape of the paddles used for rowing.
Paddles are generally made of wood, but can also be made of leather, metal and other more or less noble materials, resistant to repeated impacts. With or without aerodynamic holes.

Originally, they were invented to provoke intense pain without causing permanent damage to the recipient, as part of corporal punishment.

The best-known paddles in history were used :

In schools, as part of corporal punishment
In slavery
In families, for domestic discipline
In prisons for physical correction

Paddles are generally less painful than other instruments such as whips and badines.

Due to their wide impact surface, the pain is more percussive and more evenly distributed, which reduces it.

But some have a few special features, such as those made of steel cables, which have a smaller area, or vampire paddles, fitted with sharp points.

How to use a BDSM paddle?

The best places on the body to use paddles are the buttocks and thighs.

As they are generally made of hard, resistant materials, these fleshy areas make it easier to avoid any risk of damage to bones and organs.

The best area for sensation is at the bottom of the buttocks, just above the junction between buttocks and thighs. The vibrations of the impact at this point stimulate the erogenous zones.

As with the other instruments, the more progressive you are, the further you’ll be able to go. Remember also to change the place of impact regularly and alternate between the two buttocks.

Here’s an infographic on impact zones to help you. Particularly suited to hard, rigid materials.

In terms of marks, classic paddles will mostly redden the skin, and may even bruise, depending on the intensity of the impact.

More original paddles can leave a variety of different marks, from circles and lines to numerous small dots.

How to choose a BDSM paddle?

It’s important to choose your paddle according to your experience, and the level of pain you wish to receive or inflict.

As a general rule, the softer the paddle and the larger the contact surface, the heavier it will be. On the contrary, the stiffer the material and the smaller the contact surface, the more stingy it will be.

It’s important to have quality material so that it doesn’t break, especially if you like high-energy spanking. It would be unfortunate if your paddle broke and forced you to end your session early. Or worse, injure your partner.

Choose noble materials that will stand the test of time. It’s better to invest in a few quality instruments than in equipment that you’ll have to change quickly, and which won’t give you any real satisfaction.

Wood remains a safe bet, and an essential part of your paraphernalia, but don’t hesitate to choose one with a prickly face, or covered in some other way. The 2-in-1 approach saves money while offering a variety of sensations.

If you’re a leather fan, for example, there are many paddles made entirely of leather, or covered in it, that will sweep you off your feet.

How to clean a BDSM paddle?

It’s important to take good care of your paddles, and to clean them according to their composition.
Even treated wood needs to be dried thoroughly after cleaning.
If you’re using a paddle that can bleed, you’ll also need to disinfect it between uses.
Leather should be nourished with a suitable oil. Coconut oil may be suitable.
Metal, if stainless steel, requires less care, but still needs to be cleaned.
I recommend cleaning after and before each session, to keep them in tip-top shape.

Storage is best in a dry, dark place. Hang them up or wrap them up to avoid shocks that could shorten their lifespan.

As far as safety is concerned, make sure your paddle is free from cracks, splinters or any imperfections that could cause unintentional injury to your partner.

Respect the safe zones for the strongest impacts, and modulate the intensity on more sensitive or fragile areas.

Handle with care, and always with your partner’s consent.

In conclusion, the paddles family can cover a wide range of sensations, be light or truly extreme, depending on their use. Whether you’re a beginner or an experienced sadist, you’ll find them to your satisfaction.

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